Editors' Blog Who is to blame by David Kurtz 11.04.06 | 7:11 pm Who is to blame for Ted Haggard giving into the temptation for adulterous gay sex and meth? His wife, apparently. Guys, do NOT try this at home: Come on, baby, give it up, or I’m going for the gay sex and crystal meth. Send Tips David Kurtz is TPM's editor at large.